How do you know your child is “highly sensitive”?

Your Disney trip with your highly sensitive child deserves to be magical, and you can work on mitigating the meltdowns by planning ahead. But what does “highly sensitive” really mean? 

The word sensitive can have a negative connotation. Some stereotypes include: someone who is too emotional, has no coping skills, is fragile, weak, uptight, and has no “thick skin”. 

A more positive way to frame being highly sensitive is to say they are highly aware. Because of their heightened awareness, a highly sensitive child is often more reactive to sensory input coming in via touch, sound, sight, smell, and taste compared to your average or neurotypical child.

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Here are 7 signs that your child might be highly sensitive or highly aware:

1. Loves routines

Highly sensitive children thrive with predictable schedules and routines. Since they tend to startle easily and don’t enjoy surprises, it is helpful to have a clear plan. My highly sensitive child loves knowing our weekly schedule and discussing the day ahead. Now that she understands the days of the week, she feels more in control of what’s happening.

Example: Sunday is church. Monday afternoons is ballet class. Thursday after school is swim class. If there are any changes, she copes much better if we give her a heads up instead of springing it on her at the last minute.

Related: 18 Essential Items to Pack for Highly Sensitive Kids at Disney World

2. Notices Any Change in Odor

It often amazes me how my highly sensitive can be amazingly accurate with identifying what I cooked that day. She is the first to point out if something is stinky or if something smells delicious.

Highly sensitive children often have a stronger sense of smell and have the potential to be bothered by it more than your average child. Even pleasant fragrances can result in headaches or nausea if it’s “too strong”.

3. Prefers Quieter Environments

Loud, noisy, and chaotic places can be too much for highly sensitive children. My highly sensitive child is usually so busy taking in everything around her that it becomes really hard for me to even get her attention! She hears conversations around her, notices the crying babies, hears the slamming of doors, and recognizes songs playing in the background.

It is hard to focus in environments like this, and after being exposed to a high level of noise for awhile, highly sensitive children will need a bit of a sensory break. This is one way Disney World can be really challenging because of the constant auditory input.

Related: How to Prepare Your Highly Sensitive Child for Disney World

4. Is a Perfectionist

Because my highly sensitive child is so aware of everything, she will also notice any “mistakes” or anything that is “out of place” in her mind. This makes her very particular about how things should be. It is a way for highly sensitive children to feel a sense of control, in a world where there is so much that is unpredictable and unknown. 

5. Has a High Level of Empathy

Highly sensitive children not only have a heightened “sensory” experience, but they are also very attuned to others’ emotions. My highly sensitive child is the first to notice if someone is hurt or upset, and she feels things very deeply.

Even when watching TV shows or movies, she will get tears in her eyes if someone is sad, and she will cringe and turn away if there is a lot of conflict or fighting. Not only that, she will ask me a million questions afterwards to help her “process” what she experienced.

Related: 7 Reasons Why You SHOULD Take Your Highly Sensitive Child to Disney World 

6. Is Cautious and Takes Time to Process Before Making a Decision

Trying new things is hard for highly sensitive children. They need to observe other kids doing it first, think carefully about the pros and cons, and if they decide it’s something they want to do, they will proceed slowly and carefully. 

When we first started swimming lessons for my highly sensitive child, she was very apprehensive about it. It took her months before she would even put on her goggles. And it took even longer before putting her face in the water. Swimming was a new experience with so many unfamiliar sensory sensations. But with patience, support, and continued exposure, she became more confident and eventually was able to swim the length of the pool with no flotation device! Proud mom moment.

If Disney World or traveling in general is new for your child, it’s likely they’ll proceed with caution. Which is why it’s all the more important to help prepare them ahead of time.

Related: 14 Reasons Why Disney World Can Be Hard for Highly Sensitive Kids

7. Notices Subtle Details

Highly sensitive children will notice the subtle details that most others will miss. It could be things in their environment; they will be the first to know if something was moved to a different spot in a room. 

They also pick up subtleties in other’s reactions, whether it is a change in facial expression or tone. 

She is also the BEST at the game Color Brain (we have the Disney version), which is a game where you have to answer fun Disney questions with the correct colors. The color of Elsa’s cape during her coronation? The color of Buzz Lightyear’s hood? The color of Prince Philip’s cape? She got it all! Clearly, it is a game made for kids with great memory and who notice all the little details.

It’s likely that a highly sensitive child will pick up on all the amazing details in the extensive theming at Disney World.

 

Now that you know and understand some of the signs of a highly sensitive child, you can better prepare for your Disney vacation. You can try to accommodate some of their needs into your vacation plans, so that your kids will, not only tolerate, but ENJOY their trip to the most magical place on earth!

Less emotional and sensory overload equals fewer meltdowns. And fewer meltdowns means less stressed parents and families. A win for everyone!

If you’d like more information, you can find a simple “test” to see if your child might identify as highly sensitive right here.

Do you see any of these signs in your children? Have you heard the term “highly sensitive” before?

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